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I go by Medusa, she/her, antimony_medusa on Ao3 or antimony-medusa on tumblr. I hope you are having an excellent exchange, and thank you for taking on this gift! I have attempted to organise my thoughts in this letter, cause I saw the taglist for the exchange and just proceeded to vibrate like a poorly-balanced set of kitchen beaters, so I hope this helps.
Note that in most cases I have requested both sides of a ship being the one or ones hurt. If you have only offered one side of the ship, or you see a freeform and you go “the only thing that will satisfy me is Character A hurt” go ahead and use that as the person hurt. If you also offered both sides of the ship hurt, where applicable I have mentioned what person I’m viewing hurt when I see the freeform first, but I’m good with either person being hurt, that’s just a tie-breaker preference. But any time I use a name in a freeform note, feel free to sub in a different name if you’d prefer.
AHHHHH HURT COMFORT EXCHANGE I RECRUITED LIKE EIGHT PEOPLE INTO THE EXCHANGE WITH ME CAUSE I”M SO EXCITED LETS FUCKIN GO WHAT A TAG SET THIS IS LETS HURT SOME CHARACTERS.
General DNW
This is a major exchange, so hopefully everyone’s on the same page with this, but just in case it isn’t or I hit your specific likes: nothing in my DNW is a value judgement, it’s just a list of specific triggers and squicks and preferences within the specific fandoms I’m operating in. If you love pregnancy fic, you go on with your bad self. Just not for me, in this exchange, please. Awesome, thank you.
Within the DNW, if the specifics of a freeform specify something that contradicts the DNW– for example MCD is on my DNW, but some of the freeforms include MCD in alternate timelines or backstory–I assume the freeform to take priority. I have a general DNW here, and have listed some fandom-specific DNWs where appropriate. I assume that if a thing comes up significantly in canon it’s okay to include with the characters who have it as a strong part of their narrative– I’d prefer not grief stories in general but c!phil is pretty informed by grief in canon– and have specified any exceptions to that in fandoms-specific DNWs
DNW: Omegaverse | Hand trauma | Romantic/sexual versions of a ship I requested only a gen version of | Adult/minor ships | Incest | On-the-page underage sex | Noncon/sexual assault | Grief narratives except canon instances referenced in backstory | Cancer/Chemotherapy/Terminal Illness | Childhood Cancer/Child death/Artificially shortened or magically shortened lifespan | Covid | MCD | Suicide (self sacrifice okay) | Magical cure of disability or illness (assistive coping techniques or devices okay) | Cannibalism except canon instances referenced in backstory | Infertility/Miscarriage/Abortion/Pregnancy | Grooming (the predatory behaviour, hair brushing is fine) | Hate crimes/Homophobia/Transphobia/Aphobia | Death of a parent | Hurt No Comfort | Being Eaten Alive | Illness or poison leading to death that involves losing your cognitive function | Pirate AUs | Wild West AUs.
General Likes
Mostly I just love all the prompts in the freeforms and am happy to have any work dwell chiefly on that, but if you’re looking to fill out the details, here are some things I like!
General Likes: AUs | Secret Identity | Worldbuilding | Ride or die friendships/loyalties | Translation issues/Cultural misunderstandings | Non-linear, Epistilatory, or other Form pieces | Neurodiverse or disabled characters/headcanons | Trains and/or Dragons | Competent Characters | Kidfic | Aro characters/headcanons | Humour | Happy Endings
Fandoms:
DSMP:
- Accidental time travel into combat zone: You KNOW they have wars in their pasts– back into backstory or even back before they met?
- BAMF character A is hurt/sick and is still a BAMF; character B provides comfort anyway: Literally every way I imagine this is a banger. Go crazy go stupid.
- Bodyswap--character's hidden or downplayed pain/illness is discovered because of bodyswap: Oooooo that’s the goodstuff.
- Character A cooks for or feeds Character B after truamatic event or big fight: Some domesticity.
- Character A escapes from captivity; Character B discovers extent of their injury: My BOYS, they CARE about each other. In canon with techno in prison or literally everything is good.
- Character A jumped in front of a bullet to save B; B waits A's wake up never leaving their bedside: some devotion for the road.
- Character being rescued can’t quite believe rescuer is real and not a fakeout/hallucination: ðŸ˜
- character is having trouble sleeping after being in prison: This works in canon or an au! Hell yeah!
- Character Who Believes They'll Be Tortured/Killed Begs Mercy For Another: Just fuck me up, though please happy ending.
- Comes from alternate timeline where everyone died: This is one of my MCD is okay IF in this one– this is the one where like, techno could have died (because we get a new techno), or maybe there are two technos now. Or two phils. But now they are FRIENDS.
- Comfort focusing on little hurt because the big hurt is massive and unapproachable: You know how Phil is really sad about Wilbur and Techno is sad about being betrayed? You know how good they are about emotions?
- compelled to follow orders: Because treating my boys as a weapon usually goes so well for the other people.
- Dehumanized and Abused Character is Shown Genuine Love and Affection: Emduo is the first person who treats you as a real person my absolute beloved.
- A Discovers the Extent of De-Aged B's Tragic Backstory While B Is De-Aged: I know kidfic is a tall order but what if we learn more about fighting rings past or horrible avian city or or or, and also these traumatised kids get good food and a warm place to sleep.
- Gestures of Affection After Gladiator Fights: Perhaps? Perhaps?
- Hurt/sick character gets to wear soft comfortable clothes: They deserve some softness.
- Making Homemade Soup for a Sick Person: DOMESTICITY.
- Person Used to Being Treated Like a Weapon Gets Rescued & Treated Like a Person Again: Okay I really like seeing each other as full beings with intrinsic worth.
- Time-displaced Character A is punished for relationship with Character B: Star-crossed friends, perhaps? But they’re still friends despite it? I’d ideally see this as a kidfic, cause like, who manages to punish a grown up philza minecraft, but you do you.
- Time-displaced Character A finds that things are better in the future: Good Things Are Possible!
- Punishment Collar Has to Be Worn for Reasons; Now It's Malfunctioning: Okay so the vision for this one is definitely less kinky and more wacky hijinks– tntduo has escaped from some sort of prison, but they haven’t properly gotten wilbur’s shock collar off. Attempt to be normal and escape proceeds while wilbur is being shocked every five minutes.
- Wingfic - grooming neglected wings: I think that Quackity would not take care of his wings maybe he asks Wil or maybe Wil notices but I think that’s an opportunity for bonding and making each other feel good/safe and BOY do they hate the whole time that this is happening.
- Neither comforter or comfortee will directly acknowledge that comforting is taking place: I mean.
- Making Robot/AI Comfortable By Helping With Much-Needed Maintenance: ROBOT WILBUR. And he takes TERRIBLE care of himself and the other person has professional pride and they gripe the whole time but at the end Wil has range of motion again.
- Hurt character believes rescue/help has a price tag; surprised when there isn't one: I mean. Shades of “i’m the only person allowed to hurt you” maybe, but mostly I feel like going to your enemy and then finding your enemy’s like “no that’s fine same time next week your hair sucks” is rich.
- Character A is surprised when Character B wants their help and not someone else's: Oh my enemy, my ally, they deserve to be sick and think of the person they have a psychocompetative relationship with first.
- Character has The Most Dramatic Reaction to a papercut possible: More! Pathetic! Men! 2k23!
- Character being their usual awful self is strangely comforting: Look they revolve around each other like binary stars.
- Character comforted after having mundanely terrible day where a thousand small things go wrong: You know how both of these guys have the worst luck in the world? Quackity deserves to get his foot crushed in the door and Wil’s like “okay let me pour you a drink” and then quackity sits down and then the chair breaks out from under him. And then, idk, cuddles. Follow your bliss.
- Character A abandons plans in order to rescue Character B: What do you MEAN Wilbur is in danger this is IMPORTANT cancel all my plans we need to go get him.
- after much pining & almost dying A (bloody & bruised) comes straight to B & kisses them in public: I just think it would be cute. Quackity deserves to be startled by kisses and then everybody has to flee cause boy is he getting into it.
- A accused of crimes; only B believes they're innocent: Well OBVIOUSLY I know you didn’t do the murder/prison break/etc, you always spend friday evenings alone trying to learn card tricks, I was watching you through spy glasses. (God they’re pathetic.)
- A’s pining found to be requited as B helps them recover from serious injury: Make those men pine! And then take care of each other! And then make them make out! Or be friends if you selected the &!
- cuddle or die: heheheheheheheheheheheh they “hate” each other and yet.
- Character(s) with strong powers being used as literal/metaphorical weapons: Hello to my favourite BAMF, Technoblade. Hello to someone who thinks he’s so cool and also treats him like a person.
- Character believes it's obvious that they're the expendable one; other characters strongly disagree: More! Self! Sacrifice! 2k23
- Unexpected Mercy - Character Expects To Be Tortured/Killed; Begs Mercy For Another But Not Self: More Self Sacrifice 2k23! (Happy ending plz though I am a fragile bb.)
- Technically awful attempts at comfort are actually comforting: Neither of those boys knows how to talk to people, but they care SO MUCH.
- Memory issues make character run away from allies so enemy ends up helping them: So what if superhero au and tommy gets whammied and Techno the villain ends up helping him? Or the other way around? Just a thought.
- Hurt A is so out of it they initially don’t recognize B and assume they’re there to hurt them more: Consider it.
- Hurt character receives better treatment from enemies than friends: SUPERHERO AU. Or Fantasy AU. Or Space. Go stupid go crazy.
- Character hurt by bad reputation gets vindicated/correctly understood by people they care about: It’s about KNOWING the other person wouldn’t do something cruel/dishonourable/Like That.
- Character A Takes A Blow Meant For Character B: ðŸ˜
- Character A pretends to be Character B in order to save them from a terrible fate: Back at it again with the self sacrifice (though again plz a happy ending)
- Character expects to be punished but is unexpectedly comforted instead: What if expecting cruelty but softness instead? What if your enemies respect you?
- Character A insists they doesn't care about Character B; also insists on providing comfort: have these two ever verbally communicated their feelings in their life? No.
- Character A helps or comforts Character B even though they think B hates them: Consider it. A little bit of devotion/care even though your relationship is garbage?
- Bodyswap - A Overwhelmed By And Unsure How Control B’s Powers; B Tries To Help Them: Eh? Ehhhhh????
- Character A attempts to sacrifice themself for B; B gets very upset: Self sacrifice that isn’t accepted is a great taste that tastes great together.
- Character A asks Character B to take them hostage so B can escape: Tommyinnit supervillain guard with ethics? Eh? Eh?
- Brainwashed/Mind Controlled minion(s) of villain get help from hero despite all they did: Tommy runaway minion/sidekick and hero Techno? Yes? Maybe?
- Characters in Arranged Marriage Expect Hurt But Receive Kindness Instead: more marriage of convenience Beeduo 2k23
- Culture Shock from Arranged Marriage
- Arranged Marriage as a Means of Keeping Enemy Under Control: okay I BOTH like this as the idea that like, some phantom “enemy” is making them get married, or like, tubbo is a prince and ranboo’s a revolutionary and he wants to keep an eye on him. Go crazy go stupid.
- Amnesia - A pretends to be B's trusted partner to mess with them but catches feelings in the process: Okay the obvious choice is ranboo amnesia, but it could be interesting either way .
- Amnesia - Character A mistakenly thinks Character B (who's in Love with them) is a Stranger
- Character A has to beg to be allowed to take on character B's punishment instead
- character A is a hero who gets grievously injured and character B is their rival who comforts them: Okay I say “greviously” but please do not actually kill my boys. Can they recover, please. I am a fragile baby.
- Character A is delirious and begs B for forgiveness for something B bears no grudge for:
- Character believes it's obvious that they're the expendable one; other characters strongly disagree:
- Character in Fake Relationship thinks Partner Hates Them: I just think that fake dating beeduo is so possible.
- Character(s) with strong powers being used as literal/metaphorical weapons: tubbo nuke powers, you know you want to.
- Wingfic - Character has to hide their wings; is found out when hurt/sick & can no longer hide them:
Okay this one is a moonshot to even have in the tag set. 192 fics on the archive. But just in CASE there’s someone else who loves these guys…
My feelings about Emduo above and below also relate to Emduo in this setting: I love the sort of ease of best friendship they have, absolutely trusting each other to watch each other’s back and that the other person is going to be so terrifyingly competent. And in this setting, they’re co-emperors! Everybody is afraid of them! Phil just got nicknamed The Angel Of Death and boy does it seem fitting! Techno has social anxiety and everyone thinks he’s so cool! Phil has a shulker box of Air strikes! They fought a dragon on the moon! So many different types of fantasy empire vibes! Maybe space, you do you!
My favourite focus is Antarctic Empire, and of that focus AEduo, but I also like sneeg (and calvin! And sophie!) as side characters if you’d like to flesh out the empire or focus on someone else. And Wilbur is a favourite enemy/ally/guy in our DMs.
Fandom-specific DNW: Any reference to CC!techno’s death | Any reference to a death for C!Techno | bad dad phil or abusive family dynamics | techno as phil's son | NSFW/Anything with an E rating. |
Freeforms:
- accepting injury to protect someone: what are co-emperors FOR if not this.
- Aftermath of Torture - Character trying to hold it together is clearly low-key fraying at the edges: I just think this would be fun.
- Big Damn Rescue (with comfort): Sometimes your guy got kidnapped and you gotta go break some heads.
- Captured and tortured together & doing their best to help each other through it: You know these guys would be more focused on trying to help each other than anything else.
- Catching Ill from Rough Weather: It’s cold in the antarctic.
- Character A shares body heat with Character b to keep them alive and warm: It’s cold in the antarctic.
- Character A shows up on Character B's doorstep because they didn't know where else to go: Okay so what if PREQUEL where they were NOT allies and they have to work together?
- Character taken prisoner; expects torture/humiliation; gets kind & honorable treatment: Another one where what IF they were enemies and THEN?
- Comforting/distracting character while they receive medical attention: No one on SMPEarth is going to react well to being at the healers.
- Emotional H/C - Character A forced to convincingly fake-betray B in order to protect them: let’s turn that knife.
- king's health linked to kingdom's: Oh?
- Misunderstandings - Hurt character initially believes comforter is there to hurt them more: You can do so much with a kidnapped emperor or.
- Nice Breakfast After Both/All Characters Had Bad Dreams/Nightmares: Everything looks better in the morning.
- Time Travel - Meeting younger version of loved one and finding them in a bad state: You KNOW these boys come with traumatic backstory.
- Wingfic - Comforter's wings as warm covering for hurt/sick character: I think the angel of death could also be a good nurse sometimes maybe.
- Wounded characters stumble away from battle together: They made it through!
- A Sells B To The Enemy: Is it all a ploy to get to some larger goal? Was there REAL BETRAYAL? You decide.
- Entering a room to find sick/hurt character asleep on the couch: Back to domesticity.
- chained to a wall: Imprisoned. But they get out of it, right? (up to you).
- A believes the love they’re shown is conditional; they expect to be cast aside: Something something expecting to have to be the best always and messing up once and assuming that’s it, you’re not useful any more.
Origins:
Fandom-specific DNW: Any reference to CC!techno’s death | Any reference to a death for C!Techno | bad dad phil or abusive family dynamics | techno as phil's son | NSFW/Anything with an E rating. |
- Aftermath - Character A only feels safe when B is around;
- Aftermath Of Finding Out Character A Was Possessed And No One Noticed but B
- Aftermath of Fighting Rings
- Caring for character's injured wings:
- Char A accidentally reveals tragic backstory to B while out of it from illness or injury:
- Character A falls asleep on B's shoulder; B gently moves A to rest on lap instead:
- Character has unwanted death touch power:
- Character takes on a disproportionate amount of pain to spare their friends/teammates:
- Characters live together while one recovers from hurt:
- Cooking food to comfort but it doesn’t go well: Neither of these guys can cook.
- curse-breaking and ensuing delight and relief
- de-aged and sick/hurt
- Entering a dream/nightmare to help the dreamer/entering another character's nightmares
- Injured Character has amnesia and only trusts character B
- Injured villain shows up at hero's doorstep
- Possession - Character A Is/Was Possessed And Character B Is/Was The Only One To Notice
- touch-starved but clueless
- I'll do the traumatic thing because I can handle it
- Huddling For Warmth
- Character A has to beg to be allowed to take on character B's punishment instead: Messed up. I like it.
- Magically de-aged character receives comfort they were too proud to ask for as an adult
- Team takes turns waiting by comatose A's bedside so A won't wake up alone
- holding hands while imprisoned in separate cells
- Exhausted A is judged for lack of open emotional reactions to tragedy; furious B stands up for them
- 2AM talk in the kitchen after a nightmare/insomnia
- After injuries are patched up character A falls asleep on character B
- Aftermath of Torture
- Amnesia - Character mistakenly thinks enemy is an ally/friend
- attempted self-sacrifice is thwarted by people who do not agree character is expendable
- Bodyswap--character's hidden or downplayed pain/illness is discovered because of bodyswap
- A can only comfort B from a distance
- Character being rescued can’t quite believe rescuer is real and not a fakeout/hallucination
- Character Gets Hypothermia and has to be Cuddled back to Health
- Character takes on a disproportionate amount of pain to spare their friends/teammates
- Comforting/distracting character while they receive medical attention
- Dehumanized and Abused Character is Shown Genuine Love and Affection
- Entering a dream/nightmare to help the dreamer/entering another character's nightmares
- Person Used to Being Treated Like a Weapon Gets Rescued & Treated Like a Person Again
- Time Travel - Meeting younger version of loved one and finding them in a bad state
- Retainer Lovingly Cared For By Liege:
- Rubbing a sick/hurt/exhausted character's hair dry:
- Brainwashed/Mind Controlled minion(s) of villain get help from hero despite all they did: What if they were enemies and THEN they’re not enemies?
- Char A knows the truth that'll devastate B; lies to let B think they're the bad guy to protect B:
- Bodyswap - A Overwhelmed By And Unsure How Control B’s Powers; B Tries To Help Them:
- Character A pretends to be Character B in order to save them from a terrible fate:
- Character A sleeps in B's doorway to make sure they stay safe:
- Character expects to be punished but is unexpectedly comforted instead
- Character is falsely told that another character approves of them being hurt
- Character Needed to Work Through Illness/Hurt but Can Finally Collapse and Get Taken Care Of
- Character never brings up illness/injury because they assume others don't care; is proven wrong
- Technically awful attempts at comfort are actually comforting/Technically awful attempts at comfort are actually very comforting
- Unexpected Mercy - Character Expects To Be Tortured/Killed; Begs Mercy For Another But Not Self
- Character believes it's obvious that they're the expendable one; other characters strongly disagree
- Ally of hero hurts villain when they discover hero loves the villain
- Bodyswap - Bodyswapped Character Must Prove To Their Friends/Loved Ones That It’s Really Them
- Character A has to beg to be allowed to take on character B's punishment instead
- Loyalty - Being Seen As Nothing More Than Someone Else's Weapon
- Character A reveals feelings for Character B while out of it from illness or injury
- Character in Fake Relationship thinks Partner Hates Them